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Fun fact: Masturbation can be awesome! In fact, a lot of girls do it, and enjoying it doesn't make you weird. So, why masturbate?
How do you masturbate as a virgin? I heard about an electric toothbrush, but what do you do? When im turned on i feel a tingly feeling down there.
Sign up or log in to share. I never insert anything while masturbating. I just use a vibe on my clitoris.
Masturbation — therewe said it. Touching yourself might feel taboo and you might be embarrassed to talk about it, but exploring your sexuality is totally normal. It's a healthy way to learn about yourself and your body, so you feel more comfortable when you're ready to have a sexual partner.
Most of my blogs over the years have been written for people who are already sexually active and have experience with pivi penis-in-vagina intercourse. I hope guys will read this as well—virgins or not. Losing your virginity is not a topic that most of us bandy around in casual conversation.
Welcome to "Ask a Sex Educator," a weekly series where renowned sex educator Lena Solow will be answering all of your questions about the tough stuff — sexuality, gender, bodies, STDs, pregnancy, consent, pleasure, and more. Is it OK to masturbate or be curious about how to masturbate if I've never had sex? The truth is, there are no rules except that you should do what feels comfortable and exciting for you.
Contrary to superstition, there is nothing wrong with masturbating when you are a virgin. In fact, it is an important part of understanding your own desires and feeling comfortable with your body before diving into bed with a partner. Masturbation is important and healthy and can be enjoyed by everyone regardless of their sexual history.
GermanyGirl over a year ago. I understand how you feel,im 13,a virgin and I masturbate too,im afraid to stick anything bigger than my two fingers because it may rupture my hymen,so I just suggest, if you have a showerhead,try to strattle it like your riding a horse,and just let the jets do the work,it usually works for me,or you can get something electric,like,say,a toothbrush. Hope this really helps!
Not an easy question, but I'll do my best. I'm going to assume we're not talking about infibulated women, but in the case you are, just write back and we'll tackle that, too. One thing to understand is that one unfortunate aspect of defining virginity by the state of the hymen is that it just isn't accurate, in terms of the state of the hymen truly representing if a person with a vagina has been sexually active or not.